Do u have a heart to know the truth?

I m not gonna tell u some spicy, astonishing, mindboggling or masaledar truth abt myself ;)Its jas abt something I have noticed pretty frequently.. I have seen many people mentioning their turn offs as LIES. I dont say dat its not a Turn off....but do we ever consider dat do we have a heart or Guts to digest the truth. Not that I m in support of lies in a relationship...
But it is a truth that people do not feel good with truths. It shows up in long term, they actually dont feel good about the truths. What actually they want is a truth which sounds good to listen too...which doesnt hurt their ego or doesnt make them insecure! If it is not a goody goody truth they ultimately become unsecured, start suspecting the person and their behaviour becomes prejudiced. They make a mental make up of the person after listening to the bitter truth and it ultimately harms the relationship ( ne relationship)
So I recommend truth and transparency in every relatioship but do consider this " Can u digest the Truth?"
If u cant accept the truth or u dont like the truth den actually speaking TRUTH becomes a Turn Off.... so ultimately u will be contradicting ur own statement.